I do not want to trivialise your observations, however; you must admit that you are being unnecessarily defensive. Fro example, If I refer to something negative or unfortunate about the "balck" experience, you try your best to draw parallels with other races in other places. How does this negate the prevailing negative perceptions about black people? Constant denial appears to be your forte. Incidentally, it appears as though your flirtation with the Kween has not gotten beyond that first date. That romance is really on a rocky road. You persist, she resists,so you must now desist, or is it the other way around?