{"id":7189,"date":"2013-03-10T23:46:17","date_gmt":"2013-03-11T03:46:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.trinidadandtobagonews.com\/blog\/?p=7189"},"modified":"2013-03-16T05:03:02","modified_gmt":"2013-03-16T09:03:02","slug":"a-females-scorn","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.trinidadandtobagonews.com\/blog\/?p=7189","title":{"rendered":"A Female&#8217;s Scorn"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><b>&#8220;A black woman is no different to any other woman&#8221;<\/b><br \/>\nBy Akilah Holder &#8211; Trinidad Express &#8211; March 08, 2013<br \/>\n<small><a href=\"http:\/\/www.trinidadexpress.com\/woman-magazine\/A_black_woman-196637151.html\">www.trinidadexpress.com\/woman-magazine\/A_black_woman-196637151.html<\/a><\/small><\/em><\/p>\n<p><figure style=\"width: 200px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.trinidadandtobagonews.com\/blogimg\/slavery-abolition-s.jpg\" width=\"200\" height=\"229\" alt=\"Am I not a man and a brother?\" class \/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><b>AM I NOT A MAN AND A BROTHER?<\/b><\/figcaption><\/figure>I was standing in my local mini-mart one day, waiting to be served and minding my own business, when this scruffy and questionable-looking black man who had walked into the mini mart began eyeing me. From the corner of my eyes I had noted that he was eyeing me, and had thought to myself, &#8220;Oh gosh, here we go!&#8221;. As I had anticipated, this &#8220;character&#8221; walked over to me and began hitting on me. I shot him a look intended to convey &#8220;Ugh! Please!&#8221; At that point, I looked away. And I must have succeeded in communicating the meaning that I had wanted because he persisted, &#8220;why you have to treat me like I is a beast?&#8221; Yep, green verbs and all! I responded &#8220;because you are acting like one,&#8221; and so aggravated was I, that I was about to spit out &#8220;and you look like one too,&#8221; but I thought to myself &#8220;Look, Akilah, hush, jus hush&#8221;.<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\nHe stopped, but not before adding &#8220;Why my people so boy, why we so?!&#8221; I did not even bother, I just ignored him. But I cannot ignore the premise that seems to underlie his final statement: that as a black woman I should be thrilled that he is interested in me (despite his vagabond, unkempt, very &#8220;street&#8221; appearance and obvious lack of or absence of education), that because I am black I should be able to relate to him, that I should not have class and carry myself like a lady, and that I owe him something by virtue of being black.<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.trinidadexpress.com\/woman-magazine\/A_black_woman-196637151.html\">Full Article : trinidadexpress.com<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;A black woman is no different to any other woman&#8221; By Akilah Holder &#8211; Trinidad Express &#8211; March 08, 2013 www.trinidadexpress.com\/woman-magazine\/A_black_woman-196637151.html I was standing in my local mini-mart one day, waiting to be served and minding my own business, when this scruffy and questionable-looking black man who had walked into the mini mart began eyeing &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.trinidadandtobagonews.com\/blog\/?p=7189\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">A Female&#8217;s Scorn<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[101,291,1,154,632],"tags":[85,104,204,138],"class_list":["post-7189","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-africa","category-gender","category-general-tt","category-race-and-identity","category-racism-watch","tag-abuse","tag-african","tag-colorism","tag-racism"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.trinidadandtobagonews.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7189","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.trinidadandtobagonews.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.trinidadandtobagonews.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.trinidadandtobagonews.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.trinidadandtobagonews.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7189"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"http:\/\/www.trinidadandtobagonews.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7189\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7219,"href":"http:\/\/www.trinidadandtobagonews.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7189\/revisions\/7219"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.trinidadandtobagonews.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7189"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.trinidadandtobagonews.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7189"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.trinidadandtobagonews.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7189"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}